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Why I Became a Female Personal Trainer in Cape Town (And Why I Work Differently With Women 35–50)
A Real Reintroduction: This Time, I’m Fully In
If you’ve followed my journey over the years, you’ll know that I’ve been in the fitness and wellness industry for over 20 years.
But if I’m being completely honest?
I’ve dipped in and out – mostly going back to my career in film.
Life happened. Growth happened. Healing happened.
And now, at 41, I can say this with absolute certainty:
I am fully committed. Fully in. And building something that truly matters!
Bespoke Body and helping women transform their bodies and minds is my purpose.
I’m currently working with a limited number of clients: both in-person (Atlantic Seaboard & Cape Town CBD) and online—and my focus is clear:
Helping busy women (especially 35–50) feel strong, energised, confident, and at home in their bodies again.
My Story (And Why I Coach Women Differently)
My journey didn’t start in a gym.
It started in a dance studio.
As a child, I was a dancer, but I wasn’t super talented. I worked really hard for an exam and landed up with a debilitating back injury. I couldn’t walk upright for weeks – I was writhing in pain. And after that, I just stopped moving my body for years. Until I found Muay Thai.
And I became obsessed.
That obsession took me all the way to the World Championships in 2002, where I won a bronze medal.
But behind that achievement?
There was a darker story.
Because it was a weight-class sport – and because I didn’t have the right support, I developed severe eating disorders.
- Overtraining
- Undernourishing
- Bingeing and purging
- Years of restriction followed by loss of control
This cycle lasted over a decade.
Even after becoming a qualified health coach… even with all the knowledge…
I still struggled.
Because healing your body isn’t just about information.
It’s about understanding yourself on a much deeper level.
From Burnout to Balance (And Real Strength)
Eventually, I did the work.
I healed my relationship with food.
I stopped the yo-yo dieting.
I learned how to train with my body—not against it.
Then came pregnancy… and everything changed again!
And this is where my coaching truly evolved.
Because no textbook, and no 20-something-fresh-out-of-college-trainer can fully understand:
- What your body goes through during pregnancy
- How it changes after birth
- What happens in your 40s (hello, perimenopause 👋)
- The mental and energetic load of juggling career, kids, relationships, ageing parents… and yourself
And yet…
You still deserve to feel Strong. Fit. Confident. Vibrant. Alive.
My Approach: Real Life, Real Women, Real Results
I don’t believe in one-size-fits-all training.
I coach real women with real lives.
That means:
- If you didn’t sleep because your child was sick → we adjust
- If work is overwhelming → we adapt
- If you’re starting from zero → we build slowly
- If you’re an ex-athlete → we challenge you properly
I meet you where you are.
And then we level you up!
I can be strong. I can push you. I will hold you accountable.
But I also understand you.
And that balance? That’s where real results happen.
How You Can Work With Me (Flexible Options)
I know time and budget can feel like barriers, but they don’t have to be.
Here are some ways we can work together:
1:1 Personal Training (Mobile)
I come to your home or office (Atlantic Seaboard & Cape Town CBD)
Online Coaching
Train from anywhere with structured guidance and support
Partner or Small Group Training
More affordable + more fun
Custom Programs + Accountability Check-ins
Perfect if you want flexibility but still need guidance
Nutrition Support
Macros, calories, and realistic strategies that actually work
Let’s Talk About Investment (Honestly)
Yes – working with a coach is an investment.
But you know what costs more?
- Constant doctor’s visits
- Burnout
- Injuries
- Low energy that affects your work and income
- Feeling stuck in your body for years
Your health is either:
An investment now
OR
A cost later
If You’re Ready—Let’s Do This
If you’re a woman between 35–50 (or close to it), and you’re ready to:
Feel strong again
Have real energy
Stop the cycle of dieting and burnout
Build a body that supports your life
Then I would love to work with you!
I have limited spots available right now.
Especially for in-person clients in Cape Town (Atlantic Seaboard & CBD)
And a select number of online coaching clients (anywhere in the World!)
Ready to Work Together?
Send me a message today to chat about what would work best for you!
No pressure. No judgement. Just a real conversation.
Because this time in your life?
It’s not about starting over.
It’s about finally doing it right.
Why Personal Training Might Be the Best Investment You Ever Make in Yourself
Let’s be real — between work, life admin, family demands and fluctuating energy levels, staying consistent with your workouts can feel impossible. That’s where personal training comes in — not as a luxury, but as a powerful act of self-respect.
Whether you’re just getting back into movement or ready to level up your results, training with a qualified personal trainer can be the game-changer that gets you there faster, safer, and stronger than ever before.
The Real Benefits of Personal Training
- Custom Workouts for Your Body & Goals
No one-size-fits-all programs here. Every session is tailored to your fitness level, goals, time constraints, and preferences. - Fewer Injuries, Faster Progress
Technique is everything. With a trainer by your side, you learn how to move efficiently and correctly — avoiding the common mistakes that cause burnout, plateau, or injury. - Built-In Accountability
It’s much harder to bail on a session when someone’s waiting for you (and cheering you on). You’re not just working out — you’re showing up for you. - Motivation That Lasts
A good trainer doesn’t just count your reps. They get to know your body, your mindset, your life. They hold the vision when you forget why you started. - Results You Can Feel and See
From stronger glutes (a personal fave!) to improved energy, posture, mood and metabolism — you’ll see a difference in how you move, carry yourself, and feel in your body.

Train Anywhere: Online, Outdoors or In Your Space
I get it; life is busy! That’s why I offer flexible options so you can train in a way that fits your lifestyle:
- Online training from anywhere in the world (I’ve had clients in the U.K, Europe, UAE and as far flung as Barbados!)
- Outdoor sessions for that energising, mood-boosting movement (a plethora of parks, beaches and promenades to choose from in Cape Town)
- In-person sessions at your home, office, hotel or private space (Cape Town-based: Atlantic Seaboard, CBD, Woodstock — other areas on request)
Worried About Cost? Let’s Get Creative.
Fitness shouldn’t feel out of reach – and I’ve got options to help make it work for your budget:
- Partner sessions – train with a friend or partner and split the cost
- Shorter 30–45 minute sessions – more affordable, more efficient
- Small group sessions – organise a group of friends or colleagues and create your own mini fitness squad
Why Train With Me?
Hi, I’m Oona, a certified personal trainer through the Exercise Teachers Academy and a health coach through The Institute For Integrative Nutrition, with additional training in functional and group fitness. I bring over a decade of experience in movement, drawing from my own journey through dance, Pilates, yoga, Muay Thai and strength training.
My approach is holistic, fun and functional, and every program is as unique as the woman I’m training. Whether your goal is to get stronger, feel more confident, improve your health markers or simply move better; I’m here to help you build a body you love living in.
The best part? My clients stick with me for years, and not just for the results — but because we actually enjoy the process.
Ready to Get Started?
If something in you is saying it’s time: trust that. Let’s chat and find the best option for your goals, schedule and lifestyle!
Email me at oona@bespokebody.co.za
Or WhatsApp me here +27835563630
This is your sign. You’re not too late, too busy or too unfit. Your best body is still ahead of you and I’d love to help you get there!

Break Up With Bad Eating: How To Transform Your Relationship With Food And Your Body
It’s time to break up with your toxic relationship with food and your body! Like byeeeeeee! It’s 2024 and I know you are ready to let go of that BS!
Are you stuck in a cycle of yo-yo dieting, binge eating, and feeling guilty about your food choices? You’re not alone. Many people struggle with their eating habits, and the constant battle can be exhausting. But what if I told you there’s a way to break up with bad eating for good and create a happy, balanced, and sustainable lifestyle? Yes, it’s possible, and I’m here to help you every step of the way!
I was once stuck where you are. For two decades in fact! Yo-yo’ing all over the place. Suffering from every eating disorder mentionable and feeling extremely shameful, frustrated and uncomfortable in my skin! The good news is I’ve healed and now my biggest passion and purpose is helping other women transform their bodies, minds and spirits, so that they too can look and feel their very best! I want this for YOU!
Welcome to a journey of transforming your habits and healing your relationship with food and your body. In this post, we’ll explore practical strategies to overcome bad eating habits, and I’ll share how you can join my upcoming workshop to dive even deeper into this life-changing process. So, grab a healthy snack and let’s get started!
Understanding the Root of Bad Eating Habits
Before we can break up with bad eating, we need to understand why we engage in these habits in the first place. Bad eating habits often stem from emotional triggers, stress, boredom, or simply not knowing what our bodies truly need. Let’s break it down:
- Emotional Eating: Many of us turn to food for comfort when we’re feeling down, stressed, or even happy. It’s like having an edible best friend that’s always there for us, but this relationship can become toxic if it leads to overeating and guilt.
- Stress Eating: When life gets overwhelming, it’s easy to seek solace in a pint of ice cream or a bag of chips. Stress releases cortisol, a hormone that increases our appetite, making us crave high-fat, sugary foods.
- Mindless Eating: Ever found yourself finishing a bag of snacks without realizing it? Mindless eating happens when we’re distracted, often while watching TV or scrolling through our phones. It disconnects us from our hunger and fullness cues.
- Lack of Knowledge: Sometimes, bad eating habits come from not knowing what our bodies need. We might think we’re making healthy choices, but marketing can be misleading, and we end up consuming more processed and unhealthy foods than we realize.
Practical Strategies to Break Up with Bad Eating
Now that we understand the root causes, let’s dive into some practical strategies to help you break free from bad eating habits and start building a healthier relationship with food.
1. Practice Mindful Eating
Mindful eating is all about being present and fully engaging with the experience of eating. Here are some tips to get started:
- Slow Down: Take your time to chew each bite thoroughly. This not only aids digestion but also allows you to savor the flavors.
- Eliminate Distractions: Turn off the TV, put away your phone, and focus on your meal. Pay attention to the texture, taste, and aroma of your food.
- Listen to Your Body: Eat when you’re hungry and stop when you’re full. It sounds simple, but it requires practice and patience.
2. Plan and Prepare Your Meals
Planning and preparing your meals in advance can help you make healthier choices and avoid the temptation of fast food or processed snacks. Here’s how to get started:
- Create a Meal Plan: Spend some time each week planning your meals. Include a variety of fruits, vegetables, lean proteins, and whole grains.
- Batch Cooking: Prepare larger quantities of healthy meals and store them in the fridge or freezer. This makes it easy to grab a nutritious meal when you’re short on time.
- Healthy Snacks: Keep healthy snacks like nuts, fruits, and yogurt on hand to avoid reaching for unhealthy options.
3. Find Healthier Alternatives
You don’t have to give up your favorite foods entirely. Instead, find healthier alternatives that satisfy your cravings:
- Sweet Cravings: Instead of reaching for candy, try fresh fruit, yogurt with honey, or a small piece of dark chocolate.
- Salty Cravings: Swap out chips for air-popped popcorn, nuts, or whole-grain crackers.
- Comfort Foods: Make healthier versions of your favorite comfort foods. For example, try making baked sweet potato fries instead of regular fries.
4. Seek Support
Breaking up with bad eating habits can be challenging, but you don’t have to do it alone. Seek support from friends, family, a coach, or join a community that shares your goals. And speaking of support…
Join My Upcoming Workshop: Transform Your Relationship with Food
Are you ready to take the next step in your journey to a healthier, happier you? I’m excited to announce my upcoming workshops on breaking bad eating habits and transforming your relationship with food! This workshop is designed to provide you with the tools, knowledge, and support you need to create lasting change.
What You’ll Learn:
- Understanding Emotional Eating: Identify your triggers and learn strategies to manage your emotions without turning to food.
- Mindful Eating Practices: Develop habits that reconnect you with your body’s natural hunger and fullness cues.
- Healthy Meal Planning and Preparation: Get practical tips and advice to make healthy eating easy and enjoyable.
- Building a Supportive Community: Connect with others who share your goals and create a network of support.
Why You Should Join:
- Expert Guidance: Benefit from my years of experience and expertise in nutrition and wellness.
- Personalized Approach: Receive personalized advice and support tailored to your unique needs.
- Lasting Results: Learn how to create sustainable habits that lead to long-term success.
Upcoming Online Workshop Details:
Wednesday 10 July 2024 12pm (GMT+2)
Wednesday 17 July 2024 10am (GMT+2)
Cost: $20 / R350
Don’t wait any longer to start your journey towards a healthier, balanced lifestyle. Sign up for my workshop today and take the first step towards breaking up with bad eating for good. Together, we can transform your relationship with food and help you achieve the happy, balanced life you deserve.
Sign Up Now and let’s embark on this journey together!
Breaking up with bad eating habits is a journey, but with the right tools, support, and mindset, you can achieve a healthier, happier relationship with food and your body. Remember, it’s not about perfection, but progress. Celebrate each small victory along the way and keep moving forward. Here’s to a healthier, happier you!
Join my workshop today and start your transformation! Click [here] to sign up and take the first step towards a happier, balanced, and sustainable lifestyle.

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